Minneapolis Kinksters Fetlife group Fetish & BDSM Club
Address: Minneapolis, MN, USA
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/groups/14374
This is a group for people of all proclivities and orientations that call Minneapolis and the surrounding areas home. The intent is for people to share ideas, thoughts, explore musings, ask questions, find events and people with similar tastes, and stimulate conversations.
Posting rules:
- Be respectful. No trolling. No personal ads. Any posts that are hookups or personals posting will be deleted.
- This is not a solicitation group. If you want to determine the local interest level of an event, you can ask what people would be willing to contribute to help make “fill in the blank” happen.
- If you have an event already planned, set in stone, WITH an RSVP link/post available AND at least two LOCAL independent references listed (for people to contact on the link you provide or in the post itself), you are welcome to post it. Otherwise it will be deleted.
Please note: For people between the ages of 18-35: Please check out the local TNG group Min-Ky for people age 18-35 for a safe, sane, consensual, and friendly environment to meet people within the local kink community! Min-Ky is on fetlife and easy to find. I highly recommend you go there before meeting, or sharing private info, with ANYONE responding online.
On the serious side:
Remember all the rules and warnings you have ever learned in life and DO NOT give out private information to strangers on FL. DO NOT meet strangers in private places where you may not be able to protect yourself. Strangers = people you do not personally know well. This includes people you have been chatting with on-line too, even for a long time! If someone wants to meet you face-to-face, ask for three (3) references within the local community. If the person you are chatting with refuses, or says they are not part of local community etc., be EXTREMELY CAREFUL! They may have been banned from the community, or have so little regard for others that they know they would not be welcome. Or in other words, they may seem great in text but in person would not “pass go” accept in jail! DO NOT meet anyone who you do not know well accept in a public place like a restaurant, book store, coffee shop, etc. Even if you meet them somewhere public, have a safe call in place: Someone you trust to call at a pre-arranged times and say either “all good” or “come and get me now”. If the later, make sure they WILL come and get you, seriously! Do not play with strangers, do not give private information to strangers, do not leave a public area with a stranger – no matter how much you want to play, or please, or whatever. This is your life we are talking about, possibly literally, DO NOT risk your life with strangers!
Be well, play safe, and be safe!
Lady Guinevir
P.s. For those to shy to post feel free to message me privately. If I have not responded within 24 hours it is because I have probably not seen your note. Please resend and do not feel any hesitancy in doing so! I am here to help in any way possible, but sometimes time gets away from me…and messages too!
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