Missouri BDSM Fetlife group Fetish & BDSM Club
Address: Missouri, USA
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/groups/302
A Group for Lifestylers and Kinksters in Missouri. We encourage discussion, announcements of get togethers in which every member of this group would be welcome (if this does not fit the group DO NOT mention or post it), and the sharing of information.
We encourage Safe Sane Consensual as well as freedom of Opinion without being attacked. Please do introduce yourself, and let us know a little about you. DRAMA FREE ZONE!!
We do not sanction groups that pick and choose members by what can be gained by using them so please do not Post about any of them.
This group does not permit Seeking or Hookup posts. First offense is a 30 day time out. Repeat offenders will receive perma-ban. Spamming multiple groups with seeking and hookup ads will also earn a ban. Posts which violate the group rules will be deleted. We will not be chasing you down to explain why your seeking ad or other disallowed post was deleted. We are all supposed to be adults here. You agreed to abide by the rules when you joined the group.
Rules:
- Please make sure ALL advertised or mentioned events, gatherings and GROUPS are open to anyone on this list, to target a specific age, sex, or type of person is not what is considered accepting of all and could be seen as TROLLING. You will find your post removed.
- Please do NOT put want/hook-up ads on this list .. there are plenty of personal groups on fet-life. Please take personal ads elsewhere. Repeat offenders will be banned.
- We do not sanction groups that pick and choose members by what can be gained by using them so please do not Post about any of them. The group leaders consider them unsafe. Posts of these kind will be removed.
- No personal attacks, that means on a person, an event, a location. To personally attack someone, known or not known is causing Drama, and this is a Drama FREE zone. Please remember this.
- You do not have to agree with everyone, but do not disrespect them.
- Grammar checkers can exit the group, as you are NOT this groups teacher so please do not try to act as if you are.
Do not attack other members, take it private. - Do not correct anyone else’s posts that are not directed toward you, but please do stand up for yourself if you are in the right.
- Please make sure ALL advertised PUBLIC events and gatherings are open to anyone on this list 100% membership , to target a specific age, sex, or type of person is not what is considered accepting of all and could be seen as TROLLING. Private events held in someones home can be limited to first come first served , due to space.
- Please check with the owners before posting your events.
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