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  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Facebook and Instagram of alternative sex. There is no place for many popular and successful social networks because if you use one or two – you will not use others, because you don’t have time and because you can already find all people at networks you use. So at the place which we will discover to you, you will find the most of various perverts in your location and in locations you plan to visit. That place is in the top 3000 most visited websites of the world and has the biggest user base among fetish and BDSM people
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Number 1 non-vanilla dating app for BDSM/fetish sex - the Tinder+Bumble+OkCupid+Badoo, all in the same place, but full of naked photos of bodies, dicks and vaginas of members who want only one thing: no string attached perverted sex with you!
feim0816
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This group is a place for women (and others) in California who love bisexual men to find them. It is a sexual group. Whether or not it has anything to do with BDSM is up to the individuals who choose to meet. and what they negotiate. IF you know of a California woman (or others) on FetLife that likes Bi men, send them this way. Lets try to get this group to grow. Like bisexual women, bi men have more sexual opportunities then straight men. When 2 bi men get together and a woman is involved, even if all she wants to do is watch, watch and masturbate, direct, etc., it can make the sex for the men that much…
feim0440
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A group for breeders and those who desire to be bred in California ONLY please! Personal Ads Encouraged! Rules: Please be nice to others… If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all! No hate mail, spam, or other unnecessary posts! If you do it, you will be banned. For events, check with the group owner first before posting. Please no games like ‘breed or pass’… this is a place to find a breeding mate in the greatest state around 😉
feim0661
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • So what do you do when who you are doesn’t fit into one box or group here on Fetlife? For me I find myself torn between way too many sub-groups and I wish someone might form a group where I might find other souls who have as wide a breadth of interests or are open to authentic exploration in many areas and just generally geek-ing out on new experiences. So after taking to heart this year that it’s my job to create the life, activities and tribe I want (just as it is for Your Life), I’ve decided to start a new group here that includes a ton-o-fabulous-geeky-pervy-stuff! There’s no cute, short & pithy title to encompass what I am and how I want to…
feim0815
feim0486
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This is a group for California cuckolds to meet women, cuckolds, and bulls that are like minded and local. There are plenty of cuckold groups but how many are just for California? 🙂 Rules: Permanent California residents only. If you’re “in town for the week” you’re not welcome here. No exchange of money of any kind. Findommes are not welcome here Be civil. Don’t attack others Cucks and bulls put their personals in the appropriate thread. Disregard for the rules is grounds for an immediate, permanent ban. You’re an adult. Nobody is going to hold your hand while you cross the street anymore. Lazy, stupid losers get banned.
feim0590
feim0797
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • I have been interested in Glory Holes for some time now, but it is hard to find a decent, organized listing. So, I decided to make a group for each state. Open to all, but please only list holes that reside in this state, as there will be a group for every state. Try to list addresses if known, for those who may not be familiar with certain cities. Also, please list if said hole is serviced by males, females, or both, and what days are good to frequent them. Rules: Just be good to one another. I don’t actively monitor all of my groups, so if anyone notices a problem please send me a direct message. Please, do not…
feim0671
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • California Hookups says it all 🙂 New Thread Announcement California is a HUGE state so we made a few threads to help assist with finding the right hookup. When you post in the locations thread, remember to add your City and what you are looking for in a hookup. Example: Los Angeles – 35 yo Female looking for a discrete face sitter with NSA. Gender is not important and my profile contains more of my fetishes. Housekeeping Rules In my attempt to keep the threads fresh and lively, I will delete expired threads. For example, ” I am visiting LA between 2/3/15 – 3/3/15 and I looking for a tour guide.” This thread will be deleted after one month. The…
feim0664
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This Group is for Kinky people in California or people visiting California who enjoy both BDSM and the great outdoors. I hope to use this group to help organize camping, hiking and backpacking trips with other kinksters in Cali. or connect with others who are interested in coming to Cali. with an interest in Kink and camping. Please feel free to ask questions and lets have fun. Rules: This is NOT a group for personal adds or to advertise services. Unless someone asks a question about those services FIRST! Please respect these rules.
feim0795
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This group is for those kinksters that also enjoy nudism openly either at home or freely out in the open. This is a place for us to discuss and make friends with other California nudists and share with each other. Please keep open minded to others. Rules: Just be respectful to others ideas and in general to each other. NOTE: If you are in this group, if you block any owner / Leader of the group, you will not be allowed to post or stay in the group. The group owner / leaders must be able to contact group members if the need arrises to moderate postings / responses that may require it No advertisements or event postings allowed without…
feim0736
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This group is for pegging fans and those curious about it. Come see what people are saying and join the conversation! Rules: Keep it Neat Stand Behind Your Posts No Dirty Deletes
feim0525
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Everyone is welcome in this group! Tgirls are HOT and we love being who we are from the inside out. Friends and Admirers — pls. enjoy and have fun meeting lovely ladies here in our area. Rules: Please follow proper etiquette and be respectful
feim0559
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • Welcome to Fetlife’s CALIFORNIA Threesomes list. We welcome anyone interested in threesomes in the California Area, including any visitors to the CA area from overseas who are interested in three way play. We have a good mix of couples, single women and single men here, a lovely CA crowd. Rules: Personal threesomes ads are welcome. All personals must have Threesomes in California as the main focus. Include your CITY location in the TITLE of your personal ads posting. (Socal or Norcal, or IE or South Bay, or similar are NOT acceptable). If you post as a couple, your profile must reflect that you are a couple. You can post another ad or bump a previous ad once a month. California…
feim0010
  • Orange > Irvine City
  • Better your life by sharing. Come engage in discussions that tackle reas of interest to you.
feim0033
  • Los Angeles > West Covina City
  • Looking forward to spending a great time out for a couple of days? Come to Camp Crucible, the best all inclusive fetish retreat!
feim0728
  • Los Angeles > Long Beach City
  • FOR CDS TGIRLS AND SHEMALES IN LONG BEACH CALI. TO MEET FEMDOMS MASTERS SLAVES AND TO JUST TALK ABOUT ANYTHING THERE INTO.  
feim0700
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • This group is for personal ads targeted for people located in the Central California area. Ads can be for someone looking for anything from a one-time play partner to a poly relationship or an LTR. Please try to keep it short and sweet; your profile should have detailed information about you. Be specific to your desires and attractions. NO COMMENTING ON ADS! If you see an ad you like, respond to the email! No critiquing of ads. Remember we are here to place ads not to discuss kink issues. However, we will allow postings of BDSM events taking place in Central California. Remember keep it safe, sane and consensual.  
feim0685
  • Butte > Chico City
  • Chico California Munch – Anderson California Munch – Redding California Munch Yes, you can have your CAKE and taste it too! There IS kink in the northern California Valley beyond the bounds of Sacramento. Please consider joining this group if you want to find out about what is available in our region. Don’t just sit back, speak up and tell us what you would like to see. Then come out and meet us IRL at a munch. We have several a month, which are announced in the forum, and also on the home page of ChicoMunch.com (conveniently accessible on mobile devices). After we’ve actually met you, we’ll likely tell you where the parties are. Intelligent and careful people in the…
feim0058
  • Los Angeles > Burbank City
  • An organization in the Butte county for those into leather/ BDSM. Great place to hook up with other like minded individuals to share common lifestyle aspects of interest. Lots od events and parties and munches as well!
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  • San Diego > San Diego City
  • Join our group to enjoy sane, safe and fun sm fetish, leather and BDSM play. We also organize play parties, fund raisers and other meetings of interest to our members. We also arrange many educative workshops for our members!
feim0284
  • San Diego > San Diego City
  • Club X is a non-profit organization (incorporated in California) serving as an educational, charitable, and social group. Based in San Diego, Club X is composed of a very diverse group of people,­ all enjoying some area of a lifestyle involving Leather, SM or Fetish interests. We are a pansexual fun-loving, caring, well-adjusted, educated, focused, and dedicated organization serving our community. We are actively working in our society to reduce prejudices about people’s personal choices in life. Our group is one among many such groups across the nation showing by example how positive and healthy the Leather/SM/Fetish lifestyle is. We act as a clearinghouse for information of related community events around the country and in San Diego. We provide fund-raising for…
feim0594
  • Contra Costa > Concord City
  • This is a group for those who attend or who would like to attend the Concord Munch. This group meets once a month on the last Tuesday at NEW TIME AND LOCATION DENNY’S 6:45 PM TO 9:30 PM 1313 WILLOW PASS ROAD, CONCORD CA 94520 PLEASE RSVP VIA THE MONTHLY EVENT LINK IN THE CONCORD MUNCH GROUP! The dress is casual but remember, keep your kink OUTSIDE as we want to remain at this location. No fetish clothing, no toys…just remember…no spreading your kink to the innocent vanilla people around us. Feel free to join us! Rules: Manners, Courtesy and respect at all times. PLEASE be gracious and respectful to everyone you come in contact with, inside and outside our…
feim0641
  • Los Angeles > Los Angeles City
  • Curvy women in Los Angeles area .. A bit of everything ..events ..munches ..fetishes Rules: please do bash or hate because of size, you know how our kind loves a fight. Post events in your area and surrounding areas, but only if they’re not too goofy. Even goofy in an ironic way. Yeah. No. For example: World’s ultimate no-limit Uno tournament. World’s ultimate no-limit Uno tournament to the death. No personal adds Introduce yourself please, but don’t be so obtuse ya know? Don’t just say you have an interesting personality, fuckin show it. No platitudes. If everyone agrees with something you’re posting, it’s a worthless post. Please title your threads properly. If you can’t manage that, I’ll fix them for…
feim0243
  • Los Angeles > Carson City
  • An organization that promotes many different expressions of power in love and play. The group offers education, support and more to people with an interest in alternative lifestyles
feim0674
  • Riverside > Palm Springs
  • This is the FetLife meeting space for DESIRE Leather. DESIRE is the annual all-women/GQ/Gender Variant/Trans event held in Palm Springs, California. This group is not only a place to ask questions and get information, but a place to connect with other attendees. (No Cis or Trans Men) Rules: Be nice or you’ll be asked to leave. If you want to post something about another event, please check in with [email protected] before doing so. Thank you! If you are posting information about another women’s or GQ event or happening, please simply come in and say hello, because that’s nice, post a SHORT blurb and a link. Please do not post more than a paragraph because we can read the info on the link you will leave…
  • United States of America (USA) > California (CA)
  • A best place to start and continue your insanely active and at the same time safe alternative sexual life. It’s a way better to start it online and prepare for meetings in real life than do it at the bar or at the night club. Even BDSM dungeons and fetish conventions can be a great discouragement if you visit them without preparation. BTW most dungeons and local misstresses have their pages at the place we talk about.

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